Don’t mind getting married in this little number…!
Please, Please, Please Let Me Get What I Want by The Smiths
“Good times for a change, See the luck I’ve had, can make a good man, turn bad.
So please, please, please - let me, let me, let me.
Let me, get what I want, this time.”
This is “The Safest Wall” in Seoul, South Korea.
Since the 1980’s young couples, have show their true love for each other, by locking a pair of personalised padlocks to this fence, and throwing the keys over the edge. By throwing away the keys, they are showing their eternal, undying love for each other.
My father, I’m sure who doesn’t hate me, makes me feel worse about my state and definitely dislikes me, if not hates me.
My brother keeps fighting with me and likes my cousins and friends more than he likes me. I’m his real sister but I feel like a distant relative, who isn’t given much importance to. His innocence is fading away and my little brother is growing up too fast. He turned 12 in September, but his way of thinking and speaking is like a 16-year-old. He used to remind me of a little brown rabbit, with big naive eyes looking at me with respect and love, but now it isn’t like that. Not anymore.
My mama, sometimes is on my side, sometimes is not. She tells me that she’s there for me and is my friend, when I don’t have one. It’s kind of hard to believe but I accept it anyway. I don’t have any friends (except one really good one - who is my best friend, but lives a thousand miles away from me!) at the moment. I’m told that I do have them, but I don’t feel it.
My cousins are turning their backs on me. They are fraternel twins, born in the year 1995. They think I should learn to adjust. They don’t realize how much I have done to fulfill their wishes. I share everything I have whenever they fly down to my city to live with me - I share my clothes, I share my perfumes, I share my bed, I share my living space, I share my memories, I share my secrets. I give and I give but in return I get remarks of how I cannot orient myself. I’m sure they love me. Or at least I think so. In this day and age one cannot tell if one is lying or telling the truth. There are too many fickle people on our Earth. Now I understand why there are “trust issues”. I can fathom those people who cannot trust.
1. French Kiss
Probably the most famous kiss there is, the French kiss is an open-mouthed kiss where one person’s tongue touches the other person’s tongue. Also called a “tongue kiss,” the French kiss easy enough to execute, but it can take years to master.
2. Butterfly Kiss
To give someone a butterfly kiss, get close to them so the tips of your eyelashes are touching theirs. Then blink very fast so your eyelashes flutter together like butterfly wings. It’s a fun, cute thing to do while you’re catching your breath from more traditional kisses. You can also give someone a solo butterfly kiss by fluttering your eyelids against their cheek.
3. Single-Lip Kiss
To give a single-lip kiss, take one of their lips between yours and gently tug on it. It’s an awfully romantic kiss. If you do it right, you’ll send shivers up and down your lovers spine.
4. Spiderman Kiss
Based on the kiss in the 2002 movie Spider-Man - this kiss involves kissing someone whose face is upside-down from yours, so your top lip kisses their bottom lip and vice versa.
5. Earlobe Kiss
A great kiss to perform while you’re taking a break from lip kisses, the earlobe kiss involves taking someone’s earlobe lightly between your lips and tugging gently downward. For a more intense earlobe kiss, add a little bit of tongue, or use a gentle sucking on their earlobe.
6. Lip Gloss Kiss
This is a fun, flirty kiss for girlfriends to give their boyfriends. Put on a healthy amount of lip gloss or ChapStick, then rub your lips on your partners’ lips until theirs are coated, too. For extra fun, surprise your partner with a sweet, fruity lip gloss flavor.
7. Eskimo Kiss
In an Eskimo kiss, two people rub their noses back and forth against each other. It’s based on real kisses that people in Eskimo cultures give their friends. Just like with lip kisses, Eskimo kisses are best executed with your eyes closed.
8. Cheek Kiss
The cheek kiss is exactly what it sounds like - a closed-mouth kiss against someone’s cheek. Cheek kisses can be used as friendly greetings, flirty thank-you’s or cute, unexpected ways to say good-bye to your boyfriend or girlfriend.
A hickey technically isn’t a kiss; it’s a red mark (a bruise, really) left on the skin after someone sucks hard enough on it. Hickeys hurt a little to get, but some people think the sucking feels good, especially on the side of the neck. It can be embarrassing to walk around with a hickey, so before you start sucking, get permission first.
10. Secret Message Kiss
While French kissing, spell out a secret message with the tip of your tongue against their tongue. It might feel a little funny to the other person, but at least you’ll be getting your message across.
11. Vampire Kiss
The vampire kiss is a deep kiss on someone’s neck that can involve sucking or light biting on the skin. Since some people find it painful rather than sexy, and since the sucking might leave a hickey, always ask permission before you give someone a vampire kiss.
12. Wet Kiss
Wet kisses are any open-mouthed kisses, with or without tongue. A little bit of wetness during a kiss can be sexy, but try not to overdo it: too much saliva is sloppy. Alternate between wet kisses and closed-mouth kisses and single-lip kisses, and be sure to swallow occasionally so you don’t accidentally drool all over your partner.
13. Lizard Kiss
The lizard kiss involves flicking your tongue in and out of your partner’s mouth in tight, quick strokes (picture the way a lizard moves its tongue). This is a silly kiss you can try just for fun, but it generally should be avoided because it feels kind of creepy to get.
14. Air Kiss
The air kiss is a sophisticated gesture you can use as a greeting to your friends and relatives. To give one, rest your cheek against their’s and make a kissing sound.
15. The Biting Kiss
The biting kiss is a more aggressive form of the French kiss. Like the French kiss, it’s open-mouthed and incorporates tongue, but as you pull back, your teeth lightly grab onto your sweetie’s tongue for just a second. Try it once and see how your partner responds. Some people love it, but others think it’s painful or weird.
16. Angel Kiss
To give an angel kiss, kiss them very gently on their eyelids or on the spot right next to their eye, using just your lips. It’s a very romantic way to wake someone up or say goodbye.
17. Neck Kiss
After French kissing for a while, some people mix it up by trailing their mouth down and “Frenching” the other person’s neck. To execute a neck kiss perfectly, go light on the saliva, focus on the motion of your lips, never stay in once place for very long and never suck hard enough to leave a hickey.
18. Jawline Kiss
To plant a jawline kiss on someone, give them a firm kiss on the bottom of their jaw, right where their face meets their neck. If they respond well to it, make a path of jawline kisses up to their ear and give them an earlobe kiss.
19. Breath Kiss
The breath kiss is a fun, silly kiss that’s almost more of a game than a kiss. To do it, open your mouth, inhale deeply and lock lips with your sweetie (like you’re performing CPR). Slowly exhale into their mouth while they’re inhaling, “passing” the breath to them. Without moving, slowly inhale while your partner exhales. Keep passing the breath back and forth until one of you runs out of breath or you both erupt in giggles.
20. The Love Kiss
Finally, the love kiss is any kiss that you give while thinking tender, loving thoughts about your partner. You might not realize it, but your kissing style can be influenced by whatever’s on your mind. Smooching with love on your mind will make your kisses extra soft and sweet. The love kiss is the most romantic kiss you can give.